I’ve been dating my boyfriend for about a year now, he cheats on me regularly, but I always let it slide. I’ve a key to his apartment and I went to the house when he wasn’t at home and I saw used condoms at his place, and he lied to me that it wasn’t his. Now I’m tired so I started talking to some other guy and he saw my phone ringing and it was the new guy I started talking to, he broke my phone and started hitting me, I was shouting and screaming and managed to run out. I left and the next day, he came to my place with a new phone, flowers and a car. I’m scared he will do it again but I’m still in love with him. I don’t know what to do.
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May 03, 2021 6:00 am
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May 30, 2021 2:43 am
I think you should take a break and really think about what you want. In the process, do something that makes you happy and you can discuss this with him just to make him aware that you need a break.
Jun 09, 2021 11:09 am
Believe me! I have been through this... flowers, chocolates, car, jewellery any of this is going to change the fact that he is keeping cheating on you and also abusing you. It was 4 years living a nightmare and it NEVER changes unless you put your pieces together and leave. Ask for help because it is impossible to do it alone.
Jun 09, 2021 7:25 pm
I think you should just be sincere with yourselve on what you care for in a relationship. True love does not hurt.
Jun 17, 2021 10:43 pm
Firstly, it should be understood that material things are not love and the fades in short time. According to my knowledge of things, true love does not cheat, and lastly, he ought to love you based on the measure but not the same degree at which he loves himself. I therefore argue that you should leave such person and if care is not taken he might endanger your dear life
Jun 18, 2021 6:03 am
I think the guy has found a treasure in you he hasn't found in anyone else and that's why he keeps coming back with gifts , ready to do anything to have your trust again.
However, be sure that the moment he finds what is keeping him hooked with you in somone else , it's just a matter of time, the gifts will disappear, he doesn't care any longer and he will be ready to cheat to your face .
My little cent, take a bow and re-evaluate the relationship, the rules of engagement needs to be more clearly stated .
Jun 18, 2021 6:17 am
- Listen to what your heart tells you, and do the right thing.
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